Beyond the First Move.

Way back when I was still single, if you really liked someone, there’s came a time when saying hi just isn’t enough anymore. You’ve made contact, maybe even shared a few conversations, but now you’re hesitating. You’re wondering how to open up more, show a deeper side of yourself, and take things to another level. That fear of misreading signals or being too vulnerable makes you pause, but if you want the relationship to grow, you'll have to go beyond just saying hi.

Just like in romance, advancing your career can feel intimidating too. In your career, you’ve already proven yourself. You’ve put in the work, shown your value, and demonstrated that you’re capable. Now it’s time to advance. But you hesitate for fear of trying to promote yourself and the risk of rejection. You’ve earned the right to move forward, but putting yourself out there for that next step can still feel risky.

The weight of anticipation, fear of the unknown, and potential for rejection can make it seem impossible to move forward. Whether you're afraid of making the wrong impression or feel like the stakes are too high, it’s easy to convince yourself to wait. It takes real courage to push past the hesitation and trust that the move you make will lead to growth. But the next step you’re trying to take isn’t a step at all.

Instead, it begins with how you see the situation, how you view yourself, and what you believe is possible. It’s about quieting those doubts, shifting your focus to the opportunities ahead, and trusting that you are prepared for what’s next. In your mind, you begin to see possibilities and recognize a new readiness to embrace them. When your mindset is focused and open, you’ll find you're ready to follow today’s fortune as it says, “It's up to you to make the next move.”